sweety25 asked:
the kids dont listen, dont know alot of things,the mother is always out partying, n she is hardly ever with the kids,the father isnt ever there. and i basically raised the kids since they were small
Craig
the kids dont listen, dont know alot of things,the mother is always out partying, n she is hardly ever with the kids,the father isnt ever there. and i basically raised the kids since they were small
Craig


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I admire you for taking on this role. Cliche, I know, but being a good example, no matter what their parents are doing is one of the most important things you can do. And just keep on guiding them.
IF MOM DOES NOT CARE YOU TEACH THOOSE KIDS!!! MY FRIEND DOES THIS PARTYIN SHYT TOO & MY FRIENDS &I HAD TO TEACH THEM
well if your in charge of them and they don’t want to listen give them a time out.try keeping them busy with activities like games or crafts or even an outdoor activity like playing ball or going to the park or just a walk
Find someone else to baby sit for and watch cops in about 15 years to see those kids all grown up.. lol
It’s hard to enforce any rules on other peoples kids if the parents aren’t going to continue to enforce the same. You can try to talk and reason with them and make a game out of doing the right things while they’re with you. Praise them when they listen and if they don’t you need to have consequences. No TV, games, telephone, or going outside to play. You have to be the boss, they won’t like it but they will respect you for it later. Just try to make it feel good to listen, and compliment them on any efforts so you’re not constantly being the nag. Tell them you want what’s best because you love them and you want everybody they meet to love them too. Don’t ever criticize their mother in front of them, they’ll soon enough figure out what she’s all about and form their own opinion. Tell them it ***** to have to listen but there’s always going to be a boss, teacher, or a spouse telling you what to do so they need to be use to it. Try to be a good listener too, respect gains respect. Good luck!
tell them as if you were their mother